Fundamental Techniques In Handling People

He or she too does non want to let the unhappy settlement to be happened. Hence, the first part has taught me that prudence which is a value know as pr toyical wisdom ought to be implemented by anyone of us. I start out wise(p) that someone has to think twice or thrice before he or she behaves and confabulations. This is be wee-wee people will remember what we talked to them oddly the complaint and praise. Criticism and blaming will make people feel really down, angry, and charge to be discouraged.Besides, I learnt to think deliberately with unhurried expression in order to give out the most appropriate responses when relations with different people under different situations. Prudence is the exact reverse gear of impulsiveness and rashness. If we do not think deeply before our every bodily function or speech, we whitethorn hurt someones fragile feeling as reality are creatures of emotion who have high self-esteem. Humans are eternally afraid of condemnation, prejudic es, and complaint. Most of us are not willing to nerve the imperfect side of us but al flairs wish to expose steady-going words from others. M trying not to blame others of their faults even the serious ones. However, I try to stand in their shoes and determine their difficulties by showing loving kindness. We should not expect any free pardon from the God f we are not willing to forgive others offenses. From this, have in condition(p) to forgive people without any criticism, complaint, and judgment. I learnt to sing good words of others instead of learning how to gossip somewhat people and talk about their bad words. Like what Benjamin Franklin has mentioned about that he scarcely speak all the good things he know of everybody and would not speak ill of anyone.I was so amazed by the way of dog vacuum-clean in giving response to the careless young man later the mechanic fueled in jet fuel rather than flatulency to propeller plane. This famous pilot, Bob Hoover gave a sec ond determine to that young man in servicing his F-51 on the next day. Bob knew criticism and scolding only can produce futility and resentment. This will cause the mortal who is being criticized tends to justy himself or herself even lose their arrogance when having daily performances in workplaces, at home, in school, and et. Tetra In other words, criticism may bring out unpleasant past experiences to some people, this may push them into a wrong route which involve in confused illegal activities. I have realized irritability can be maked by criticism. Thus, people would be demoralized as anger sakes a bad situation to be worse. I will negate criticizing people. On the other hand, innocenty has to be shown in praising and appreciating others confinement. never ignore the good deeds people have done to us. presentation our appreciation actually is a kind of gratitude.Sense of appreciation and thanks for people giving acts are satisfactory to satisfy the desire to be impo rtant in human. The desire to be great is the strongest natural craving of everyone. Have learned to encourage my surrounding people with sincere appreciation because the one who receives the rise and appreciation will keep n doing the right thing. If one does not sire any attention from anyone later on giving so much, that person will definitely feel very disappointed because all of their effort came out with nothing.Being sincere and not fake in praising people, this is also showing approval to a person. Flattering people to win friends is an act of doing harm to people. I learnt to understand people feelings of not being acknowledged, so honest and sincere appreciation are like very important gifts to everyone. A great man should not be self-centered as he or she should always care about others. We need to care about others needs and help people to solve their problem are the acts to arouse in the other person an eager want.By expressing our enthusiasm and passion to father o ut the root reason of causing someones problem as swell as their wants, we can be a friendly and helpful person. I also learnt to be thoughtful of people point of view without mention and emphasise my own ideas only. I am trying to make my ideas to become others inspiration in creating more great ideas. If we are really wanting and hoping to get the helping hands from others, we must know about what they ant at first. While confronting any disagreement, the wise action is keeping a cool-head which kernel to be rational in handling the particular situation.We need to cool it down in order to think of the best way in coping with the difficult condition. To avoid any argument, I have learned that we have to give priority to the other party instead of ourselves. The author, Mr.. Dale Carnegie exposit his past experience of negotiating with a hotel manager. The manager increased his rent for the dance hall to 300 percent. Then, he communicated with the hotel manager in a polite way by stating out all the advantages and disadvantages that were going to accrue the manager.In the end, some(prenominal) parties gained what they wanted. Carnegie only when discussed what the other person wanted and how he could get it without throw aspect to the manager in office. Before persuading people, ones must clearly know the benefits and disadvantages of both parties. In brief, I am so sure that the several underlying skills in handling people I have learned in this chapter will enable me to get a good job after graduated as the employers nowadays are searching for employees who are able to deal with people skillfully. (999 words)